normalize diversity

I know I don't post about this kind of stuff much, but every once in a while I see something that makes me feel like I need to because I forget that not everyone is like most of my friends and accepting of other people. So, I get that we live in a cis-normative society—a society where people outside of rigid binaries like man/woman, gay/straight, cis/transgender, etc. face marginalization and violence for being who they are and must present themselves like some kind of exotic animal. Cis people expect it, and many feel justified in reacting violently if they are "surprised." The amount of hate and violence directed towards LGBTQIA+ individuals is astounding. But it shouldn't matter what gender or sex you are or somebody else is. Seriously. If you find it weird, shocking, or offensive that someone is different than you expect or wish them to be, then it’s up to you to educate yourself and learn to appreciate and enjoy the diversity of people in this world. We need to stop making excuses for this kind of belief and behaviour and deprogram ourselves of what society has taught us about rigid binaries and what's "normal." If you find someone you're fond of and attracted to, then explore ways to enjoy being together. It's not a difficult concept.